Life is not an easy game. People find it hard while going through life experiences. It is full of good and bad experiences. My own life story taught me that :
“Life is not about waiting for the storm to pass. It’s about learning to dance in the rain“.
Changing is not Easy in every life story
When I was eighteen years old, I started my universal life.
The transition from high school to university was one of the most difficult transitions.
New environment, new teachers, and a new huge number of students; all these factors affected my universal life easily.
Not knowing how to deal with them will certainly have bad consequences.
This is exactly what happened to me in my first year at the university:
First of all, I was still connected with high school life and its circumstances. As a result, I could connect with the new environment.
Second, I started comparing the high school with the university. There was a big difference between the two in terms of the number of students with whom I studied before that did not exceed forty students.
At the university, I was so surprised because I found myself forced to study with more than one hundred students in the classroom. All of these factors have badly affected my psychological life. I found myself not even able to continue my studies there.
Overcome your pain
The moment I validated my first semester with a good mark, I discovered that I could continue going in life although it was a very painful and thorny period.
I moved to the second semester, I was still suffering as I was still ignoring how to deal with that new environment.
I was shocked as my pain did achieve its highest point. However, I decided not to stop fighting to go out of it.
I still remember when I sat in the classroom aiming at listening to the professor’s explanation. Sometimes I found myself not capable of doing that simply because I was suffering all the time. But, I took a lot of challenges during that period of sufferance. I did many exposes in amphitheaters in front of that huge number of people.
In my last session with one of my professors, I was selected to answer a question that had a great relationship with my situation. That philosophical question was about the criteria for a strong personality. That was the greatest challenge being faced at that moment that was characterized by a lot of pain.
Although being not able to even raise my voice to speak, I stood in front of more than five hundred students. I tried to answer the question in the form of a presentation and spent half an hour speaking in front of the public, providing them with varied philosophical quotations to support my ideas.
I said that:
“Human beings sometimes walk in paved roads, but most of the time they walk in thorny ones“
All that I said translated exactly the bad experience that I was going through at that time. Then, the whole public applauded and they said that you are a strong person.
Continue to rise no matter how your life story hurt
I narrated my life story just to show that:
“Life does force us sometimes to go through hard circumstances, but this is not an excuse to stay folding your arms waiting for that storm to pass.“
If I was not suffering, maybe I could not respond to the question of how to be a strong person with a strong personality.
It was my bad experience that I was going through that time that let me have strong convincing ideas to present in front of the public.
If you are suffering, be convinced that it is only a storm that will take place for a specific period and the day for its departure is coming.
You have to ignore it.
Take this life story as an example.
Live as if you are not suffering because no one will notice your pain if you know how to hide it and work as if it does not exist.
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